Steps to happy relationship

Hola Fellas,

Its been a while since I am in a relationship. Its been rough and sweet and has taught me many important facts. So here I want to share the facts with you.. Happy reading.

Its important that you give time to the relationship. No two individuals are *divinely* made for each other. You need to have that 'time' to understand (unless you both are adjusting type).

As I observed, the first 6 months to one year is a Honeymoon phase and everyone.. literally everyone tends to overlook the faults or may I call challenges in their partner. The next year, could be challenging.. where you two are comfortable with each other and a) take each other for granted and/or b) show the dark side of yours (believe me, everyone has one). At this stage, either you break up or try to understand the situation and resolve the issue.

If you are successful in recognizing the problems and solving the issue, hey, you can overcome anything. But the effort should be equal from both the sides.

These are the important steps one should never skip in a relationship.

1. If you have the spark amongst, you should tally the goals and aims you have. If these match and fulfill the expectations, go ahead to next step.

2. Spend time. Alone with the partner and with friends too.

3. Get to understand the emotions of the partner. Try to understand the things which seems non-sense or provoking to you. (there is always a reason why people do/say things)

4. Be kind. Kindness conquers all!! Even when you are angry.

5. Don't abandon your partner, never alone nor in front of anyone.

6. Give a fair chance to speak and express.

7. Enjoy small things and express via small things. Not everyone requires a grand expression of love, when you are avoiding them at times.

8. Don't bring in negative words for the relationship. You are there, because you wanted it to happen. So make it work. And its possible. In every way.!!

Of all the above, remember, every person is GOOD. It just needs some special behavior to bring out the good. And there would be no heartbreaks.

Hope it was helpful to you. Stay Happy.